It's the crucial first few weeks that can make or break a relationship, some of your behaviour can decide on whether you keep that guy you really like.

There are certain things that a woman can do to scare a man away, which you should avoid at all costs.

Talking trash about your ex can be a real deal breaker, because he will think that you will talk about him the same way.

Do not get paranoid when he goes out on his first boy's night, believe him when he tells you he's just with his friends and don't send him text message after text message.

Trash talking other women to your man is a bad idea because it only shows how you lack confidence in yourself.

Forget about fishing for compliments will drive a man nuts, if he compliments you accept it as it is and do not look for more.

Especially in the first weeks you should absolutely avoid being clingy or possessive, in a fresh relationship you do not need to do everything together.

Last of all, no matter how great your friends are you should not force them on him, if your relationship lasts there will be plenty of time for him to get to know them.

[Via: JoyOnline]

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Most people when writing a profile for internet dating sites will make it really creative and interesting. However, these words can be useless if you do not have a great picture.

This does not mean that you have to look like Angelina Jolie to get a date, it just means that your photo should partially describe what your personality is like, and it should not be misleading.

There are a few rules that you should follow and your picture will end up being perfect.

First of all, it is important to never include cute animals or babies. These kinds of cutesy elements make you look a little too desperate. Furthermore there are a lot of people out there who have allergies to animals and do not like babies.

You should definitely not include other people in your picture. Other women could end up being more attractive for someone else. Pictures with other men will call for a lot of explanation.

Finally do not post a picture from you past, maybe you did look better back then but that is not fair to your potential date he is going to be dating the current you.

[Via: CNN]

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A new dating book is out - Finding "the One" - A Powerful Step-by-Step Guide to Making Online Dating Work - by Internet dating expert Yvonne Rice, which goes into detail on how to navigate the new singles scene successfully and safely.

According the the press release, the book is a result of research of thousands of online dating sites and thousands of interviews with people who've used online dating services.

"I really believe that people can find ‘the one' on the Internet, but a lot of online daters give up because they've had bad experiences in the past,' said Rice, a former dating agency owner. 'If you don't follow the right protocol, it's easy to become disillusioned or disappointed with online dating. But plenty of people have found their soul mates online and are living their own version of happily ever after."

The book contains some very useful and to-the-point online dating tips. Read more about it here.

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If you are a modern young woman trying to find her way in the everyday chaos, here's an article with some tips on how to get through everyday life. Tips range in areas from what to do with your house keys, living alone, how to move on if you've been burgled, cycling, debt and so on. What deserves our attention and makes this article worthy of mentioning here are tips about going on your first date with a man you met online.

You might want to check him out on social networks such as Facebook, Friends Reunited or other sites. Researching his background and finding out more about his life and interests may give you a chance to be sure he is the guy he claims to be.

Naturally, meeting in public is the way to go, according to the article. Have a quick drink or coffee instead of a longer outing such as dinner. This way you can avoid having to be stuck with someone you dislike for hours out of sheer courtesy.

Don't drink too much, stay sober. If you happen to like him, fumbling through incoherent sentences is not the way to impress him.

Listen to your instincts, and if they happen to tell you there's something weird about him or the whole story, think about it and walk away if that feels like the right thing to do.

Well, the article goes on and on, so read it for a complete picture.

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If you've been having questions about anything related to dating, love, relationships, sex or the opposite sex, you could always go and search on the topic on your favorite search engine. There are plenty of articles and books on the subject(s), but sometimes it would be nice to actually hear what you want to know from other people, preferably someone who knows how to explain everything in a professional and understandable way.

Loveology University aims to become such a place. It's a project by Dr. Ava Cadell, and it allows anyone to attend seminars and learn more about intimate topics, but also to become a Love Coach. The "university" offers dozens of courses on subjects ranging from love and communication to kissing, tantra and sexual taboos. Courses range in cost from US$9.95 to US$1999.95.

Courses are taken online at individual pace, or the attendee can choose to work with love coaches, mentors and therapists by looking at their videos and by scheduling short 15 minute sessions or longer sessions if they wish.

Their course catalog includes numerous topics.

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