Dating fears of men
Women have many dating insecurities, which are easy to list right off the bat. Men's dating fears are a bit lesser known, but there are quite a few and it is important in the first few months of dating to react to them properly.
His first and foremost fear is probably that he is not the only man you are seeing. Men are very competitive and it is probably driving him nuts not knowing what he is up against. The best way to handle this situation is to skirt the subject, do not tell him you are exclusively his but ask him a lot of questions about his life.
He is probably continuously worried that you are going to reject him. He needs little acts of kindness to reassure him that you plan on staying, like lots of eye contact and gentle touches of the hand.
He probably wants you to know that he is an accomplished person, so if he brags about his achievements, let him, because he is only trying to impress you.
Finally, he is probably unsure of whether he is taking things too slow or too fast. Make sure you give him some hints about whether he should be a bit more forward or slow down…
[Via: Cayman NetNews]